Friday, April 12, 2013

A to Z Challenge K

Today I am going to be remembering Knights of Columbus sponsored dances.  The Knights of Columbus is a Catholic men's organization dedicated to doing good deeds.  They good deeded themselves to death for us kids when we were in high school.

Our local K of C Council would sponsor dances after the Catholic High School home football games.  This was a big deal.   Almost everyone went to the football games, because win or lose, we knew there would be a dance afterwards.  As a member of the pep squad, I'd have to wear my uniform to the game.  But afterwards, friends would get together at one house or another to change into their coolest clothes and head downtown for the dance.

The hall was located in the upstairs of a two story building only a block from down town.  Every time I stood in line, slowly climbing the stairs with the rest of my friends to the dance hall, I tried desperately  not to be the giggly teenage girl I was.  Acting out with the rest of the 15 year olds, I always failed.  The men at the door would take our money (was it 50 cents?), stamp our hands, and let us inside, where we'd enter what I thought of as another world.  There were three or so local home grown bands that played at these dances.  Right now the only one I can think of is the Oviatt Brothers.  This amazes me, considering the hours I spent making banners advertising which band was going to play on any given weekend.  They played music like "Whiter Shade of Pale", "Twist and Shout", "Light My Fire", and "I Think We're Alone Now".  Thinking back, I'm wondering if any of the adults ever stopped to listen to the lyrics of any of these songs.  The strobe lights and black lights added to the already exciting atmosphere.  As the hall filled up, the windows that surrounded the rooms were opened to let the fresh Fall breezes in.  Now that I'm thinking about it, I don't think there were any screens on those windows.  Is that possible?  Overcome by shyness, I'd often sit on the sidelines most of the night, alternating between a smile pasted on my face, chattering with my girl friends, watching out of the corner of my eyes to see if anyone was heading our way, or plastering my face with a practiced look of "I don't care" boredom.  That is until 1969 - my Senior year.  Jim and I had met that summer and quickly became inseparable.  We attended every one of those K of C dances together.  My shyness evaporated like water on a hot summer day while we danced each and every dance.  Arms high in the air, we'd clap, stomp, twirl, and sway to the music of each and every song.

Today we are still holding each other tight, swaying through the music of life.  Thank you Knights of Columbus.


10 comments:

Megan said...

How sweet and how fun! Love reading your memories :)

Intense Guy said...

Sounds like a "Family Channel" or Hallmark movie. :)

I don't think I ever went to a dance.

Funny in My Mind said...

I always loved the school dances. Slow dancing was my favorite. There was nothing better than being a teenager and getting to sway back and forth in the arms of a cute boy I liked. I distinctly remember my first slow dance in 1982, dancing with a boy I adored to "Almost Paradise" and thinking I would marry him. We dated (as much as a 7th grader and 8th grader can date) for a while, I moved away and he was killed in 1984 by a drunk driver.

Suzanne said...

Hi, found you via the A-Z and love your blog, very happy posts :)

Suzanne @ Suzannes Tribe

AliceKay said...

Aww, what a great story. It's nice to hear how some couples have met. :)

I went to a few high school dances but I was too shy to actually dance. I loved the music, tho, so I sat and listened to the music, visited with my friends, and watched other kids dance.

Trisha F said...

Looks like those Knights gave you a lot to be thankful for!

Michael Offutt, S.F.A. said...

Thank you for sharing your story. Being a couple for so long is a true inspiration for so many people out there.

Rita said...

What a great memory! And you two are still together, too. Awesome!

My senior year was 1968! We had Sock Hops when I was in junior high--with records--no bands. Back then it was the pony, mashed potato, jerk, twist, swim, monster mash, etc. We knew the steps and arms gyrations for every song. We didn't wait for no stupid boys (too young for such nonsense)--us girls danced the night away! Mostly the boys played basketball in the gym or watched us dance. If a boy knew how to dance and was brave--and there were a very few at that young age--they won the girls over big time. LOL! ;)

Juliet Bond said...

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ChicagoLady said...

Wow, 1969. You were graduating high school, and I had just been born. LOL